I have a favorite ring these days. It seems that my grandmother's birthstone is an every day item anymore. I love this ring. But as I drove into work yesterday I was fiddling with it and thought for a moment that as much as I love it, I've been neglecting my other rings.
The engagement ring/wedding band combo are always part of the work get-up. But my other rings float. Lately I've worn my family ring with my daughters' birthstones in it. Often it's on my left hand middle finger; I never had it sized down to fit any other finger. And my grandmother's ring is on my right hand middle finger. I can't quite make myself take it in to get it sized down because of my sentimental hang-up about keeping it the same size as my Nana wore.
This means that I have my husband's grandmother's engagement ring (tiny diamond in a pretty yellow and white gold setting) just hanging out in a jewelry box. I also have three birthstone rings. The first was given to me by my husband for my birthday the first year we dated; it is a marquise cut and sticks up a ways. I stopped wearing it when babies came along because I was always scratching them with it. The second was given to me for Mother's Day some 6 or 7 years ago. It's a heart shaped setting with my birthstone and a diamond. My daughter helped Daddy pick it out for me one day after school. The third is my favorite cut--it is a special lighthouse cut and it is a bigger stone; it has a much more modern look to it and when it's all cleaned up, it's an attention grabber.
And then there are the other rings I brought into this marriage with me. . .my high school class ring and a blue pearl ring. Hmmm, I think I have another pearl ring tucked away in a jewelry box too from when I was in elementary school. Unfortunately, I lost my college ring; it slipped off my very slender/not at all swollen finger one day at work when I was about 34 weeks pregnant with my third child. I think it slipped off when I dried my hands. (Sad face!)
I can't see giving up wearing my grandmother's ring. I can't say that we were very close. But somehow this ring ties me back to another time in life.
Still, I feel that my other rings are getting cheated. How can I forgo my birthstone rings? I do wonder if I could get away with my engagement/wedding rings and grandmother's ring on my left hand and my third birthstone and family ring on my right hand? I wouldn't want to look like some stereotypical Gypsy woman. . .or like one of those little ladies in a nursing home who wears all of her jewelry because it's the only way she knows it will be safe.
How many rings are too many at one time?
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